During my absence, I have not stopped in my pursuit on
learning and understanding of the financial troubles which enslave those who fall
victim to the business model of banks. As
of today I have finished an amazing book titled “Start” by Jon Acuff. Although this book is not about increasing
your financial status, it is about increasing your personal status. I felt this book was important for those who wish
to be financial independent as it is insightful about moving yourself from
average to awesome. Awesome is a place
where everyone should aspire to be. After
reading the book, Acuff illustrates that there is no financial status of
awesome. It is not measured on the size
of your house, the manufacture of your car, or where you buy your cloths. Rather, awesome is living the life you want
to live because you chose it. I wanted
to share with you a story of my life several years ago where I made my first
move from average to awesome and for me, launching into a better life.
Nearly 15 years ago, while I was a junior in high school, I
was offered a job by a man name Nick. Nick was a friend and counselor at Christian
youth club that I attended. He had gotten
to know me and offered me a job at the company he worked for to be his
assistant. I had never been offered a
job before in my life and was honored by the proposition given to me. I gladly took Nick up on the offer and began
working there. The job was working for a
civil engineering firm that performed testing on soil to determine the strength
of structures to be built. For a high
school kid I felt like I blasted past the average of working at a fast food restaurant
and landed in what Jon Acuff would describe as awesome. For the summer between my Junior and Senior
year, it was awesome. I was making money
and doing what felt like work that mattered.
During my Senior year of high school the head gasket of my 1979 Diesel Volkswagen
Rabbit went out leaving me without a vehicle.
I purchased, with assistance of a loan, a new (the definition of new was
relative to a senior in high school) 1986 Toyota Cressida. Although
understanding math and sciences was easy to me, my calling was not to civil
engineering but rather computer engineering.
I quickly realized I was no longer living in awesome, as testing soil
was not what I wanted to do for the rest of my life. My enjoyment and desire to work quickly
diminished as my employment went from a status of “career” to a status of “job”. I wanted to quit so badly, but I couldn’t. What kept me leashed to this job was the
loan, my obligation to provide money to a bank.
Being a young man of my word, I honor that word to the bank and lived a
life of average working for a company I grew to resent.
Just prior to my graduation from high school I had my car
paid in full. I was free, free to do whatever
I wanted to do. My parents took me on a
vacation to Canada for a month to celebrate my graduation. Upon my return I continued with my job. After just one day of work I realized quickly
I was employed by a “job” and not a “career”.
I no longer felt tethered to the job as my financial obligation was
completed when the car loan was paid.
The fear which kept me enslaved by a job I did not want was no longer present. I was also blessed to have not informed my
employer I would be working full time as it was now the summer time. The very next day I drove my paid for vehicle
to the local college and applied for a computer technician job, since it was my
new awesome. The college hired me on the
spot and I actually started working immediately after the interview. That afternoon, when I was scheduled to work
for my “job”, I gave them my two weeks’ notice.
I had escaped from average to awesome for the first time in my life.
The second lesson was not staying with a job when I could be
in a career. I learned to “escape
average, do work that matters” when I moved from one employer to another. As I have grown and matured, the definition
of awesome has changed significantly.
With the change of the definition so too have I changed my life. If you told me 15 years ago I would be living
awesome in Kandahar, I would have asked you, “where?” Don’t ever settle for the average, pursue
your own awesome. If you are having
trouble with your own awesome, please read “Start” by Jon Acuff.